Well, I’m still decompressing after my recent trip to London – I’ve got a touch of travel fatigue plus writing a blog post a day to cover my adventures in The Big Smoke actually quite challenged me.
But why do I do it? Why do I write this blog?
Well, given the invisible nature of those people in recovery from alcoholism using The Sinclair Method (as previously discussed HERE) I think that it’s important to maintain a social media presence in order to say “I’m still here”… but, more than that, it’s also important to honour my recovery by having as much FUN as possible during the time that I’ve been granted and to try really hard to be the best version of myself.
It’s about embracing joy and spreading optimism.
If my scribbles on here make even one person who might be struggling smile and feel more hopeful then I’ve done a good job.
What I hope my story demonstrates is that it is possible to come back from the brink and to re-write your own narrative.
As Michael Caine says, everyone should reinvent themselves at least once in their lifetime.
And I also hope that my story shows that even under the strain of the worst adversity it is possible to stay sober and to come out the other end sane.
Believe it or not, after my mother’s murder and during the course of the nightmare ordeal of the subsequent trial I found inspiration from the strangest source – the fictional character Patrick Jane from the TV show The Mentalist; I really admire the way how that character is depicted on the show… as someone who, despite having gone through the most traumatic bereavement (the murder of his wife and daughter), consciously chooses to heroically embrace the light rather than spend his life brooding.
It’s a brilliant performance by Simon Baker and I look at it and think “Yeah, that’s exactly the way to be – and that’s how my mum would want me to be”.
The fact is, it would have been quite easy for me to become an embittered and cruel man after what happened to me and my family, but I choose a different path.
…And on that note, because further words on the subject escape me for now, I’ll close this article with a classic by Electric Light Orchestra dedicated to anyone reading this who might be struggling at the moment.